Trust!!

Trust is a simple 5 letter word but can cost us a lifetime of lessons if we trust the wrong person. Trusting someone is a human tendency. Often when you are lonely and confused you come across encounters where you feel that there is some person who would be interested to listen to your stories, problems or life issues. although the person whom you encounter may just want to know you as another individual many timeyou end updiscussing issues with a wrong person whom you might not have taught would betray your trust.

How can you avoid breaking your trust and talking to the right person?

As impossible as it may seem that you can live your life in a shell and not talk to anyone but it will only build you a pile of frustrations and overthinking. Sometimes, it is easy to pour out emotions and you may actually feel good about it after discussing your issues with someone but there are people who can use your trust against you and betray you for their own convenience.

How can you avoid some heartbreaks?

It might not be possible to avoid all the heartbreaks and betrayals as life has its own way of teaching things and that’s how you live your life experiences but it is definitely possible to see some signs people show when they are only interested in talking about themselves. they might just not show up whenever you want them sometimes having a good heart you may start feeling or give a benefit of doubt to that person but if it happens over and over again there is something wrong that the person was never actually your friend.

Stop pleasing people

If you please people there are chances they will misuse your good behaviour. It may sound rude but it is good to be straight and frank than beating around the bush and trying to please people. Remember you cannot keep everyone happy if you are not happy that doesn’t mean you need to be selfish but you need to take care of yourself for your own sanity and satisfaction. if your heart says something else and your mind is speaking something else then there is an issue that means you are forcing yourself to please a person whom you may not want to please.

LIfe gives you many signs watch out every friend is not a friend. Think about whom you are talking to and where you are it is better to write down and pour your emotions than tell the whole world who can use them against you. It may not sound practical or simple but it definitely helps many times to just not tell people anything and do your stuff.

Having said that, you may be unable to avoid all the heartbreaks but there are some things which you can avoid by noticing the signs and actions and words when they dont match the actions then you should back up for your own good and sanity.