The Decision-Making skills
Decision-making skills are the most difficult thing to do in anyone’s life whether it is a child or a grown-up adult or a manager sitting and assessing the reports or an employee who is making to make the reports. This is the reason executives are paid the highest as they are making decisions that may lead to rising or fall of a company. Having said that, even in one’s life decision making is the most difficult thing to do in anyone’s life especially when it comes to choosing a partner or a job.
In order to be a better decision-maker, you will need to have more knowledge about the decision you are trying to take but however, it will always be involved with taking a risk. The longer you take to make a decision, The more stress you will be giving to your mind but if you do not take time then you will be perhaps falling on your face and learning by experience which is one of the worst nightmares in anyone’s life.
Is there any shortcut to making a decision at all? Depends on what kind of decision you would take. I am listing a few points on making a decision to choose a life partner which is the most critical phase of anyone’s life.
Learn the background
If you think a guy or a woman is right for you. You would make an effort to know his background. This is not a day, a week a month or a year’s job. It takes time to understand a person and it is a lifelong process but the longer the better to know a person and you may want to dig into the background by many mean like Facebook, Linkedin, Twitter and may be befriending some of his friends. I would generally make a fake profile or ask a friend to befriend his or her friend to understand the person’s background. It will take time for a person has to have patience and understand what his background looks like and also understand the people he or she hangs out with and make a note of the activities. You may want to be a stalker in short but this is about your life and even if you are tagged as a stalker you may want to become one as you have to be super sure about the person whom you are letting in your home, Family or Life.
Observe the behaviour
In order to assess the behaviour, You need to observe the behaviour. You may have to meet the person as many times as you can to understand how he or she treats anyone in your presence and also observe the behaviour in every move. Like how he or she treats a beggar or a homeless person and how he or she talks to an attendee in a restaurant. behaviour says it all.
Observe how long a person has stuck in to the workplace
If a person is working in an office you may want to go through the background on how long he or she has stuck on to each company believe me it says a lot. It shows if he or she can get along with their co-workers at the workplace and what they have to say about the colleagues at the workplace. Some frustrations are ok to be shown as a person shares or vents out with friends but if it is just about venting and showing frustrations in every meeting then it says a lot about the person.
Converse in the phone
As simple means, you would want to understand a person so do as much as conversation possible with the person as it is about your life and you may also want to hear about what his background talks are with his or her own family., if a person is not nice to family think about if you would even want to marry such a person. But, If he is super close and is mama’s boy or girl then you may want to even think either way. Life is all about balance. There are no extremes and extremes are not good in any relationships.
This is not an exhaustive list. These are just a few pointers but you may also want to understand as much as possible so give it time. nothing comes up without patience but if you find any issue in any kind of behaviour you may only want to give one or two chances but if something seems fishy. Put a full stop and move on. There is no point in wasting time on the wrong person and keeping yourself hanging there. It is better to turn the page and let others in and let the positive vibes come in.
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