Is being happy a personal thing?
Whenever i scroll through my cellphone i usually come up to phrases like being happy is a personal thing and it has nothing to do with anyone else? I ponder on my thoughts to understand then why do we crave companionship if we are happy. Why do we feel loneliness and why do we go through thoughts of boredom and being social.
Many people have many things to say in general. But, I dont think being happy is personal. It definitely somewhere is about characteristic of a person. I feel a selfish person is usually happier than a selfless person in general as a selfish person usually only thinks of himself but a selfless person thinks about how his behaviour affects the people around him. In that verge, he or she usually tries to keep pleasing people.
To conclude, Being happy has to do with your nature of being selfish or selfless. I wouldnt say all selfless people are unhappy because giving gives you happiness only when you dont expect anything in return!!