How to know who matches your vibes?

The topic is not career advice or motivation in this article. The topic is maintaining peace of mind. We disagree with many people on a daily basis regarding our views, assumptions and opinions and how we have personally experienced things and people. But, when you discuss this with people and they push it to believe that their views and their experiences are always right that's when you know something is not right with the company.

Having said that, no person in this whole damn entire world will think alike, we will not match with views or opinions always but when you know something is triggering your calmness and peace of mind and the opposite person is not keen to listen to your views or cuts down on your opinions then its time to know that they are not going to stay in your life as friends or whatever you would like to call them. Then, why waste time with such people who share your thoughts and peace of mind.

I have stressed this enough in previous articles to be silent to observe people how they talk about others in front of you. It will be the same way they will talk about you in front of others except that you have a friendship which is deep down rooted from school days but if you as a friend or anyone are judging someone whom you don't even know properly then what does it say about you as a person says a lot about your personality. I do not want to get political or religious views as everyone has their own views and opinions but if you don't respect a fellow person or his religion then the whole purpose of you being a nice person is defeated.

Coming from a varied background of belonging nowhere down south with varied religions and cultures and being a minority in my own country has made me more tolerant of other religions and political views than others. Still, if a person openly promotes violence against other religions or political views then that person is never going to be anyone’s friend and a person who follows that ideology of violence is a big no-no for me to even befriend them short term let alone long term. Life is too short to bear the additional burden of differences. Befriend who makes you comfortable, respected and who gets the best out of you and is not judgemental. No one defines you except yourself. Don’t show your life to people. Dont give them the power to demean you and dont let them upset you. the more you show them about your life the more control they will hold to let you down. Learn to rise above all the differences. Improvise yourself and let the thoughts flow.

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