Art of saying “NO” diplomatically

Learning to say No is one of the most important art especially when you are timid and a people person. If you keep saying Yes to everything you don't want or like you will end up being frustrated and disappointed internally although you may not necessarily show it to the outside world as you don't like to trouble anyone. Being timid in some aspects is good as it helps you build up an empathy towards others and you are often kind compared to others but that always doesn't work when you have your own commitments and do not really agree with the opposite person who is asking you to do a favour when you don't have time, space or simply you don't want to do.

Saying No to someone is often perceived that it will spoil relationships with coworkers, friends or even kin. But, that is an art that needs to be learned by someone who is not so assertive. But, when it's not your nature then how do you build that confidence to say No and especially when you are truthful and don't really like telling a lie. Well, you don't really have to lie you just need to say a No diplomatically if you are not willing to do it. Here are some tips on building the art of saying No

Take your time

Never on the spot say a Yes or No to a person. If they are asking you to make a decision quickly politely tell them you need time to think over it. Take your time as it will look like you are at least considering what they are saying instead of Bluntly saying a No on your face. Taking time always helps as it will help you assess the request…